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Thursday, October 11, 2007

Jwaala mukhi

Robbie speaks about Anger Management...

You might have come across many people who are introvert by nature. They like to stay aloof. You may find them in a corner of a crowded social gathering. Low in confidence, normally bullied within their group and submissive. That timid looking face would be found taciturn and tolerant for sometime. Suddenly that iffy looking chap goes hot under the collar. If you think the knee-jerk was impetuous. Think again. It has been this poor guy's story since long. Lets perforate the guy's cerebrum and do some cognition.

There are three behavioral types - submissiveness, aggressive and assertiveness. Submissiveness is respecting others at the cost of own. Aggression is respecting own self at the cost of others. Assertiveness is mutual respect. Anger ranges between irritation and rage. Therefore it's a step up from submissive gear to aggressive gear. The person stays quiet till he can tolerate and finally explodes when he can't.

Assertiveness is the key to control the "jwala mukhi".

Want to know more about it? Please Ask. And yeah don't forget to give the Myers Briggs Test (http://www.myersbriggs.org/).





4 comments:

Unknown said...

well this is my fav...i liked it...

Manpreet Singh said...

assrtiveness is actually a vague topic for many... comment on that if u have time ;)... good writing!!!

Jitender "Vicky" Bablani said...

Always a pleasure reading your blog. Keep up the good work. You are blessed with a wonderful sense of humour, I suggest you use more in your blog.

Kaur said...

Hmm good one