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Sunday, October 21, 2007

Sab Mard ek jaise hote hain...hun

Robbie speaks on ... well very difficult to give a title to this topic...

I thought I've been very wishy-washy in my writings, so I should come to the original me and attract some controversies. This "no name" topic is like adding fuel to the fire. There are some cliche' that you come across everyday like "all men are the same","You know women, they are like that"and so on and so forth. Firstly, I salute to the lion hearts who wrote books like "men are from Mars and women are from Venus" and "Why men don't listen and women can't read maps". They have done a good job to make us understand the psyche and at the end only to confuse us more.

I have heard people saying that a man and a woman are like poles apart. And immediately they will throw the next statement saying that opposite attracts. Amazing! Isn't it?

There were few points that I absorbed from my readings and I would like to brief in here.

1) Men are target oriented. They want to complete the work in a stipulated time. So "people" who wonder how men shop 4 shirts, 2 trousers and 1 pair of shoes in 15 minutes, would now understand what I mean. Unlike women for whom shopping is like a sport and a stress buster.

2) Women are bad drivers. Provoking statement? Well don't get furious honey! Spatial intelligence is what you lack.

3) Kitty party is the best example that explains the prophecy that women are going to speak and listen to each others' fireworks simultaneously. Why? Astonishingly both the hemispheres of their brain work harmoniously. Men "sadly" can do just one thing at one time.

4) Men are found ogling. On the other hand, if you are a smart guy, you would only be able catch a woman checking you out with a skewed sight. The reason is simple, men have tunneled-shaped vision and females have wide angled vision.

Now, who is better, a man or a woman?

3 comments:

Jitender "Vicky" Bablani said...
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Jitender "Vicky" Bablani said...

Men and women are not only poles apart but also communicate through different frequency, often resulting in conflicts. I would say no one is better than the other. Its only the way we look at it. While Women are made to make world more beautiful, men are made to make it meaningful. We are made keeping in view, different job profiles all-together. So lets just say we should enjoy our existence together. Isn't it like unity in diversity kind of thing? Thats my take on the subject as I am married since a long time, LOL..

Unknown said...

Well yeah..what i would say is that....i agree with jitender as well that nobody is better than the other. It's just that both complete the existence of each other. Men cant survive with out women and women cant survive with out men...so here we go....So be optimistic..and think abt positive points aye... ;o)